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This nigger gives no fucks because even if there are other people stepping on your neck?

YOU’RE STILL STEPPING ON MINE AND I WANT THE WHOLE LOT OF YOU OFF

wow, i’m really damn sorry that i exist, if that’s what you want to hear. i deeply apologize for my genetic makeup which led to me being born with white skin, which is clearly a factor i was able to control, and actively choose, every day, to perpetrate, because skin color is something you can change on a whim if you don’t like it. thank you for implying that A) my problems are less important than yours because of my skin color, and B) the fact that i continue to breathe air personally affects you and makes your life difficult despite us never having met in our lives.

OH MY FUCKING GOD THEY DID NOT.

Dtwps you anti-Semitic piece of shit you need to learn to shut your goddamn mouth before someone does it for you by shoving a large ass mace in that shit-sprouting trap

Remember, people think Riley is someone to look up to and to speak for people. I want you to remember that.

huh

I would gladly step on her neck. In stilettos.

COME DO IT

COME

DO

IT

I’ll wait.

oh so now you white motherfuckers want to actually threaten with real violence because you don’t know how to read or understand context nor where your privilege and your acts of oppression place you. ok, now who’s the real fucking piece of shit? cause last i checked, you motherfuckers can’t even read worth a god damn and understand where riley is coming from and then you want to act like you are all saints and not the pieces of shit they lay out in the post. so you want to not only figuratively step on the necks of Black folks, but literally do it. fuck you, go choke bitch.

You know, I’m going to have to check carefully through my history books, but I believe that at some point in time, someone did something more anti-Semitic than saying “get off my neck”. 

I could be wrong, though.

Again?

We are seriously fucking doing this again!

White Jews, we are still fucking white. We still get white privilege and if you think its anti-Semitic to say so, then you are fucking insulting every single one of our people that has been subjected to violence for being Jewish.

Unless you just don’t like Riley’s tone, and that’s whats supposed to make this anti-Semitic. In which case, you are being a racist fuck.

I have been called a kike, I have been accused of being a gold-digger and cheap, and lazy and spoiled, that I killed Jesus, and that I wasn’t welcome someplace all due to my Jewish ethnic heritage, and you know what? BEING TOLD THAT I HAVE WHITE PRIVILEGE AND THAT I AM NOT AS BAD OFF AS SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T DOES NOT EVEN COME CLOSE!

And guess what? The only people I see being violent and hateful here, are YOU GUYS. You are threatening actual violence against a POC because you don’t like the tone they took with you. I hope you have a shred of what that looks like. I am sick that I even have a marginal connection with any of you.

Go ahead, try to justify that shit. Make it as loud as you want so as many people as possible can see exactly what kind of racist assholes you are.

(content notice for discussion of murder-suicide, violence against children and violence against women)

So this thing happened the other day. Yet another cis dude killed himself and his children, and according to his suicide note(s) he “couldn’t live without [his] kids” and that somehow justified blowing up his house with himself and his kids inside it. They were 5 and 7.

This guy was the sole person of interest in his wife’s disappearance two years ago, but was never arrested. He lost custody of his children when his father whom he lived with was convicted of possessing child pornography as well as several counts of voyeurism, some of which was done to the missing wife. The children were brought to his house for a supervised visit, and he had rigged the house to blow up. 

I’m really upset about this, partially because of how common this kind of event is and partially because of how it was being reported. I see this with my roommates ex and how he talks about the children. Its this idea that so many cis men have that if they can’t live without their families, then their families can’t live without them. And the pursuant idea that the solution to all of this is to kill everyone. At its root it seems to be very “if I can’t have them, no one will.” I’m scared too, because I wouldn’t put hurting the children outside of the realm of possible behavior for the ex.

“I couldn’t live without my kids.” But they could keep living without you, and they fucking deserved to.

It really doesn’t help that this story keeps getting reported in the passive voice. “A man and his two children died today…” No, HE FUCKING KILLED THEM! CAN WE AT THE VERY LEAST ACKNOWLEDGE THE CONSCIOUS CHOICE HE MADE TO BLOW UP HIS FUCKING HOUSE?

I hate the world right now.

I can’t trust my mother.

(content notice for descriptions of abusive dynamic, self harm and privileged wankery)

So for some reason, my mom started a fight with me today. She has some really fucked up ideas of who I am and why I do what I do. And she has a really fucked up habit of gaslighting me big time. If it weren’t for my sisters and my spouse, I might still believe her when she insists that I’m making shit up. Instead of asking for clarification, she jumps to conclusions about not just what I mean, but the contexts I work within.In her mind I only do things for attention and I never think things through completely.

Examples:

• she was convinced that my spouse was only transitioning because it was my idea. It didn’t matter that I had repeatedly told her that my spouse’s gender identity was something I knew prior to our romantic relationship starting. She also rattled off an outdated list of how transition works assuming that neither myself nor my spouse had bothered a fucking google search before coming out to her.
• when I was seven, I told her that a toy always seems special once its broken, a seven year olds understanding of “you don’t know what you’ve got til it’s gone.” She has thrown that back in my face ever since, claiming it meant that I’d break things on purpose. 
• I needed her tax information on my financial aid forms a few years ago and she couldn’t be arsed to fill it out because I hadn’t “done it myself” before leaving the country. Apparently I was supposed to do this by being fucking psychic, since she was across the country up until a week before I left and wouldn’t give me the info I needed over the phone or via email. I came back to the US in the winter to find that my paperwork was still missing the info and had not been submitted, so my financial aid was canceled and I owed my uni thousands of dollars that I couldn’t pay. 

I asked her once what I had done to merit this level of mistrust from her. Was I that bad of a liar as a child? Apparently, I swing back and forth on the pendulum, and am therefore unreliable. When I pointed out that there was a difference between being able to admit when you’re wrong based on new information and being generally unreliable, she had no answer.

Every conversation is a gotcha game. She says she “accepts” me completely, but if I point out that she’s perpetuating harmful stereotypes of me and that doing so is the opposite of acceptance, suddenly I’m trying to force her to change who she is. She pulls the “if you just accepted yourself, maybe you wouldn’t be so oversensitive. I’m not your real enemy.” She still doesn’t understand something I’ve been saying since I was 11, that just because she’s not as hurtful or abusive as she could be doesn’t mean she’s not being abusive. She asks me about my definitions for things, then ignores them and insists that I’m using different words that I am. When I lose my cool and start getting upset, she tells me that maybe I’m overwhelmed/tired/hungry/something other than upset at her bullshit and tries to dismiss me. Lately shes been using my child as a weapon against me. I had to tell her repeatedly today to stop walking away from me with my child.

In the end she turns any disagreement into “well, I’m your mother” which is supposed to make me feel all mushy or some shit, I don’t know. I asked her what that was supposed to mean to me, exactly. I know what being a mother means to me, but she and I went into parenting for different reasons. I sought it purposefully, she “accepted the responsibility” when even taking birth control properly didn’t prevent pregnancy. She didn’t like parenting and regularly blamed me for her choices. She says she loves me to dismiss my anger and I only feel manipulated and used. I was so angry I was screaming at her that I hated her when I left today. I punched a telephone pole. I’m not proud of that, especially because it upset my spouse.

I dunno. I want to love her, but I can’t take it.

For fucks sake. I had one guy tell me that the countries of the middle east were founded on religion, but the US was founded on freedom. There are a good portion of people in my class that genuinely think that violence is just “how they are” with that essentialist, “primordial struggle” bullshit.

I really, REALLY can’t wait for the unit on domestic terrorism and the christian right wing. WHATS YOUR PAT, RACIST ANSWER FOR THAT ONE, YOU ASSHOLES? YEAH, THATS RIGHT! WHITE AMERICANS BLOW SHIT UP TOO! SOMETIMES, THEY ARE EVEN CIVILIANS!

CASUAL CISSEXISM IN MY MATH TEXTBOOK. I’M SO EXCITED. SEE THIS SKULL-LIKE GRIN ON MY FACE.